Tip #1 - Take a sippy cup of water to bed with you at night. That way it will be close by if you get thirsty at night…and the sippy cup means NO SPILLS!
Tip #2 - If you are going to drink at night and are known to be a bed-wetter, extra thick cloth nappies and plastic pants are essential. Even if you haven’t wet the bed before, it’s better to be safe then sorry.
If you need your man to be totally submissive try putting him in a diaper, making him wear baby clothes and giving him a pacifier. He will fight and complain at first but eventually he will do what he’s told and take it like the big baby he is.